How to prevent social media from damaging your self-esteem
We’ve all been at that particular point in time while surfing the internet when we think a certain girl’s outfit, job, body or style is better than ours and we throw ourself into a fit whilst comparing our life with that other girl on our Facebook or Instagram page. The feeling is all
normal; however, you shouldn’t allow what you see on social platforms turn you into a pit of self-hate! Here, these tips will help you out.
normal; however, you shouldn’t allow what you see on social platforms turn you into a pit of self-hate! Here, these tips will help you out.
Ditch self-criticism and get inspired
Instead of letting someone’s great wardrobe get you bitching about your own bland fashion sense. Tap into that person’s great fashion style instead; see it as a point of reference and motivation in revamping your own wardrobe.
Make a list of things you are grateful for
You need to realize that we can’t possibly have it all, money, fame, happiness, nice guy and blah blah blah and perhaps you come in contact with someone who appears to be well off in more ways than you. Don’t heed to the sudden tendency to compare yourself with that fellow, instead, you count your blessing and name ‘em one by one!
Realize that looks can be deceiving
Oh! That girl’s got a fabulous job and she gets to take pictures of herself nailing it in her office wear!uh uh! Don’t you go mourning your not-so-exciting job, who knows that person might just be in the same situation as you but she’s made it her business to make things appear jolly for herself! Social media definitely won’t give you the behind-the-scenes
Get creative
All this talk about you not wallowing in self-hate or comparing yourself with others who appear well-to-do won’t work effectively if you don’t get yourself on your feet doing something ASAP!bring out that creativity in you, so you can feel empowered and accomplished!
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